Sunday, February 29, 2004
Week 6: Top 5 Picks Well, even though I didn't participate in this week's topic, I did read the others' entries, so it's time for my Top 5 Picks (no particular order, you know the drill...): 1. Jan at Shalom tells of her movie-deprived childhood. And there you have it for Blogger Idol, Week 6! It's actually getting quite difficult to follow my self-imposed rule these days of not nominating the same blog twice, mostly because I am running out of candidates, but also because some of the already-nominated ones are so good, week after week. Anyway, on to Week 7! posted by #Debi at 8:58 AM | permalink | 0 comments | Wednesday, February 25, 2004 Week 6: Movies I have decided to sit out this week, simply because I've got a lot going on in my head and in my life. I'm having a hard time giving my best to the "competition" this week. However, if you click on the icon above, you can read the contributions of the other fine participants. I may try and do a Top 5 this week anyway; stay posted for that. Oh, yeah, and I'm really interested in opinions on my previous post, so--talk amongst yourselves. Later! posted by #Debi at 6:16 AM | permalink | 0 comments | Tuesday, February 24, 2004 I've been hearing a lot in the news lately about all the debate going on concerning gay marriage. I'm trying to formulate an intelligent position on whether I'm for or against it, from an emerging Christian perspective. My gut response, of course, is that I'm against it--same sex marriage is not what God intended when He set up the institution of marriage. I am, however, sympathetic to those long-term gay couples who make the arguments about one partner being in ICU, for example, and the other not being able to get status reports or even visit. But those types of arguments are "legal" matters, things belonging to Caesar that should be under Caesar's jurisdiction and not the church's, if you will. My feeling is that same sex couples that are "gay" enough to want to get married are not the ones likely to be "evangelized" into leaving the gay lifestyle anytime soon. I would pray that they would come to see that homosexuality is not God's perfect will, but we must take people as they are. Anyway, my stated position when all these debates started was that I could handle "civil unions", but not actual "marriages" between gay couples. As the debate in the media has progressed, however, I have come to realize that, from a legal standpoint, I really don't have a good grasp of the difference between the two. Is there someone out there who can educate me on the difference between a civil union and a marriage, as far as government and the law is concerned? I have heard the ultra-conservative argument that the only reason that gays want same sex marriage legalized as opposed to civil unions, is that they have an agenda to get all us Christians to condone their lifestyle. This seems a bit facile to me. I'm sure that may be the case for some, but I know that there are many others who really don't care what anyone else thinks, they just want to live their life and be left alone. I really care about this issue, because I have gay friends--some who struggle with their homosexual feelings and are trying to live godly lives, however that plays out, and others who aren't struggling--they are happily gay and intend to stay that way. To the former I want to be part of a support mechanism to encourage them in their walk. To the latter I want to be a friend who, if and when the time comes, they can trust to be there to answer spiritual questions or just be there, modeling Christ in whatever way presents itself. posted by #Debi at 10:38 PM | permalink | 0 comments | Sunday, February 22, 2004 Week 5: My Top 5 Picks And now, the moment you've all (both?) been waiting for: my Top 5 Picks for Blogger Idol, Week 5 (no particular order, blah blah blah...): 1. Ande's Blog: A Blogger Idol quiz. Y'all know how I love a quiz! Well, there you have it. At some point today, I plan to post a bunch of new photos on the fotopage. First, though, this afternoon I'm headed up to Mom and Dad's for a birthday party for my aunt Marilyn. (I hope it's not a surprise party, or that she doesn't read this!) I get to be the official photographer, which means I don't have to be in any of the official photos. Heehee! There are perks to every situation, I guess. posted by #Debi at 9:26 AM | permalink | 0 comments | Saturday, February 21, 2004 I found this over at silent tribute while reading Blogger Idol posts for the Top 5 (yeah, yeah, I'm running behind again):
I think it rather suits me...by the way, Matt and Brian and I are planning to head over to a "random coffeehouse" tonight--the Lock and Key in Georgetown. Should be fun.
posted by #Debi at 3:38 PM | permalink | 0 comments | Tuesday, February 17, 2004 Week 5: Picture this! When did this..............become this?! The first photo is my senior picture, taken in 1978(!), which is 26 freakin' years ago! The second one was taken this past summer. How did this happen? How did time go past so quickly? It seems just yesterday that I was a fresh-faced, skinny, wet-behind-the-virginal-ears teenager, looking towards my 40's with a sort of incredulity. I think I really thought that I'd never live to be that old. Now, of course, 40 isn't that old, but something that happened 3 years ago. I don't really remember what I thought my life would be like at this age; I think there was some vague notion of being a famous fashion designer or something. That's not the case, of course--I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. I'm just beginning to settle into being me, and figuring out who that is. I'm fairly comfortable with who I've become in most ways--I have wonderful friends, a fulfilling spiritual life, and the prospect of much discovery and learning still to come. I actually feel that this may be the year that another sort of "graduation" will take place--a graduation into contentment, and maybe a feeling of "commencement", so to speak. (It would be nice to have that 17 year-old body back, though! :^}) posted by #Debi at 10:26 PM | permalink | 0 comments | Finally, here are my Top 5 for Blogger Idol, Week 4 (as usual, in no particular order): 1. Verbiage Ramblings: If I understand correctly (you'll know what I mean when you read the post), the author avoids "Oops!" situations by being an introvert and living in a bit of a fantasy world. I love his use of great, big words. Gives my brain some exercise. Now, on to my post for Week 5. I noticed when I went to the above sites that most of them have already posted their Week 5 entries. I'm such a slacker! Ah, well, it's not like there's a million dollar recording contract at stake. Is there? posted by #Debi at 6:28 AM | permalink | 0 comments | Thursday, February 12, 2004 OK, this is not my Top 5, not just yet. Mostly because I haven't had time to read all the entries. However, there are two blogs in this "competition" (yeah, yeah, we're not really competing, whatever...) that have stood out week after week. I can't keep putting them in my Top 5, because I imposed a rule upon myself that I would choose a different five each week. So I have added them to my blog list at right. And to show them the honor they deserve (take that however you will), I haven't just added them to the "other blogs" but have added them to my "daily blogs" list. They are (drumroll please...): Where the Hell Was I and Cliff Between the Lines. Congrats, boys. I'm sure that, before this thing is over, there will be other honorees added as well. posted by #Debi at 10:16 PM | permalink | 0 comments | Wednesday, February 11, 2004 Week 4: "Oops!" I've been wracking my brain for the last few days, trying to think of the perfect post to go with this week's theme. I was gonna write about my erstwhile habit of locking my keys in my car in embarrassing situations, but Charlie has already touched on that subject, hilariously as per usual. So I was sitting around, wracking my brain (oops, already said that!) for the biggest "Oops!" ever associated with my life, and it hit me (not literally, although I'm sure he thought of it long and hard several times): I have an ex-husband! Of course, having an ex-husband means having lots of "oops"-type material, as some of you ex-wives may know. So, I'm gonna pare things down for you and just touch on one facet of the ex--his hound dog. As all good rednecks know, the worst thing you can do to a redneck is diss his dog. So of course, that's the first aspect of him that came to mind to write about. My ex, whom I'll call Jeff ('cause that's his name), was a mysogynistic, homophobic SOB (that SOB thing is kinda literal, but talking about his mama would really make this post too long). I bring up the "mysogynistic, homophobic" parts of his personality because the two points about said hound dog that I remember most have to do with women-hating and being homosexual. You see, it became apparent that Pooterhead (that's the dog's name, not the ex's; I already told you HIS name--are you following this?!)--anyway, Pooterhead was a gay dog. All the neighborhood boy dogs were lined up around the block (or so it seemed) to enjoy a good time at Pooterhead's expense. This used to irk Jeff no end. No "real man" should end up with a gay dog, especially one that happened to be half hound and half pit bull, the two most revered breeds known to the redneck male. Of course, having actually finished more than one semester of college myself--can you say "Meeeeooowww!"--I knew that the whole gay thing was really a dominance thing, with Pooterhead apparently being on the lowest rung of the status ladder in our neighborhood. I think that might have been almost as bad as being gay, in Jeff's eyes. Of course, I played up the whole gay thing for the whole three years we were married, just to get my jabs in. Hey, I made a good candidate for ex-wife in those days! On to the "mysogynist" part: Pooterhead, like most young dogs, liked to chew. Unlike a lot of young dogs, however, Pooterhead didn't settle for chewing his master's shoes or the remote control or any of that. Pooterhead liked to chew my underwear. My clean just-out-of-the-dryer underwear. My expensive, more-like-lingerie underwear. And he limited himself to destroying the crotch of virtually every pair I owned. Now, I know that crotchless undies are considered the tres-sexy thing to own, but if I'd wanted them, I'd've bought them that way! Upon confronting Jeff with the evidence and even letting him know how this would soon impact our budget, he just laughed. Laughed! I think you can see now why he is my ex-husband. Ladies (and gentlemen), I hope you have enjoyed this little glimpse into life with a redneck man. Be forewarned, if you are dating a man who owns a dog that likes to sleep with his head stuck up under the wood stove (!), turn and run, as far and as fast as you can. It bodes no good, none at all. posted by #Debi at 6:35 PM | permalink | 0 comments | Monday, February 09, 2004 It seems I'm running behind schedule on the Blogger Idol thing. I just got the email from Darren about Week 4, and I haven't even read all of Week 3's entries yet! But, my excuse is there's been Big Things going on in my life in the past week, which I'll blog about separately when I get around to it. For now, here's my Top 5 picks for Blogger Idol--Week 3 (in no particular order, of course): 1. Random Ramblings of Ryan: A Day In The Life Defined By Song Lyrics. Very imaginative. So now I'm off to see if I can think of a suitable post for Week 4's topic, which is "Oops!" Since I never make mistakes (yeah, right), it may be hard to think of something. (More like, it'll be hard to choose just ONE!) posted by #Debi at 6:44 AM | permalink | 0 comments | Sunday, February 01, 2004 OK, for some reason the lovely photo illustration that I included for the post below is not showing up. I don't know why, unless it's just some cosmic joke to tic me off. Anyway, hopefully it'll show up soon--it's really nice, I promise! Update: It's all better now. Alan went in and fixed it for me after seeing this post. Apparently, one of the hazards of composing in Word and pasting the entry into Blogger is that you have to make sure your quotes marks are in the correct font or they won't be recognized. I'll remember that for next time. Oh, yeah, and thanks to Alan for teaching me how to insert the image so that the text goes alongside it. I love learning new skills! posted by #Debi at 3:06 PM | permalink | 0 comments | Week 3: “A day in the life of…” I know most people are probably going to do a day in the life of themselves, but I talk so much about myself in this space that I thought I’d do something a little different. Today is the feast day in the Catholic and Episcopal calendars commemorating Saint Brigid of Ireland, one of my favorite saints to read about, and one that I would love to pattern my life after. (I actually once had a dream about being like St. Brigid.) So I will give you an overview of her life on this, her commemoration day. Brigid of Ireland (c. 460-525) was ultimately famous for being the abbess of the monastery at Kildare, which was unusual in that it had both a convent for women and a monastery for men. The men and women came together in one church for worship. Kildare was famous for being a center of learning, having an art school which became famous for its metalwork and for the copying of manuscripts in its scriptorium. (The concept of the monastery scriptorium is the inspiration for the title of this blog.) Brigid was also famous for her charity in her early life. She couldn’t bear to see anyone cold or hungry, so often gave her own food and clothing to the poor, leaving herself with nothing to eat or wear. Once she had given away all of her own possessions, she began giving away her family’s things, much to the consternation of her father. (This is part of where I tend to be like her, in a VERY SMALL way. I have a bad habit, as my friends will tell you, of volunteering other people’s time, treasure, and talents, sometimes without asking them first. I realize that this is not necessarily a virtue, and am working on restraining myself to only giving what I have to give, and not coercing others to join in. :^}) The most famous incident of Brigid giving away the things of others is when she gave her father’s sword, which was extremely valuable, to a leper. He tried to marry her off to get rid of this drain on his resources, but she took vows instead. She then went about establishing convents all over Ireland, and is now one of the three patron saints of Ireland, along with Patrick and Columba of Iona. She is also the patron saint of babies, blacksmiths, boatmen, cattle, chicken farmers, children whose parents are not married, dairymaids, dairy workers, fugitives, infants, mariners, midwives, milk maids, newborn babies, nuns, poets, poultry farmers, poultry raisers, printing presses, sailors, scholars, travellers, and watermen. That’s a lot to be responsible for! I see that this post is getting very long, but I want to include one more thing—a prayer which is attributed to Brigid, which I really enjoy: I should like a great lake of finest ale for the King of Kings. I should welcome the poor to my feast, God bless the poor, God bless the sick, and bless our human race. posted by #Debi at 2:17 PM | permalink | 0 comments | |
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